There’s nothing wrong with getting it wrong. We are not perfect human beings – the perfection is in our imperfections. Sometimes we make good decisions, sometimes we don’t, but what is important, is that you make a decision. Sitting in “limbo land”, not going anywhere, might actually be worse for you.
Is there a difficult decision you’re avoiding? Holding onto that worry, just won’t serve you well.
You want to move through life with as much ease and grace as possible. Be thankful you get to experience the opportunities that are out there.
Life will never move in one straight horizontal line, it’s more like a wave – sometimes you’re surfing through gigantic waves and sometimes you’re sailing on calm waters.
In order to have the “wind at your back”, you must make decisions that feel right for you. You must make choices that align with your core values and move you towards you – the true you.
Being true to yourself, may never always be easy, but in the long run, it will give you peace of heart and inner happiness.
Trust yourself to do the right thing…..always.
If you don’t trust yourself, think about why that is. Build up self-trust bit by bit, by standing by your values and actually doing what you say you will do.
Make a commitment to yourself to honour you and act upon it daily.
If you faulter – that’s okay, forgive yourself quickly and just get back on it and start again.
You will always get another chance to trust yourself. Allow it.
Some days we glide through life with not a care in the world, and other days, we’re doubting every thought. Self-sabotage just won’t help you move forward, and when you’re in that negative thinking mode – you must do something positive to break the circuit. Know in advance what that positive action will be, so you can apply it immediately.
It could be something simple like… phoning a friend, taking a shower, going for a walk, reading a book, writing poetry, listening to your favourite music, saying positive affirmations, going to your cherished coffee spot, putting on a “feel good” movie, writing down a list of ten things you are grateful for, taking the dog a walk, going for a drive in your car, planning a nice trip to look forward to, meditating, trying out a new hobby……
There are so many things you can do to “change up” your mood and put you in a better state mentally, emotionally and physically.
Remember, this beautiful world has only one of wonderful you and your uniqueness adds to its bright specialness.
Aim to be the best that you can be – for you first – and then everyone around you will benefit abundantly from your growth.
It all starts with you.
Be your own best friend.
I love you for you.
Clarabelle
Clarabelle Online Magazine 