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It’s okay if your life is not “picture perfect” – I don’t think anyone’s is anyway.
I’ve always said “perfection is in the imperfections”, it makes life so much more interesting, real and true.
There’s a lot of pressure at the turn of a New Year, to write down new goals, set a new plan and make great things happen! Now, Missy Motivator here is always up for a challenge towards a better life, but all I would say is, don’t rush the process – let it flow out of you gently and much more meaningfully.
Stay aligned with your core values and truthful to your authentic self.
Create more space and light in your life – this is where the real magic happens.
So, as you turn the page of each new day, be mindful of where your focus is at – a messy mind equals a messy life, so keep it all nice and tidy upstairs.
I’m in my Scottish home village over the festive season and have already noticed some rather beautiful and surprising subtle differences compared to living in central London.
This morning, whilst doing the “milk” run, I popped into Costa Coffee.
Merry Xmas Coffee 🎄💚
Christmas love and festive cheer was in full flow – my fellow villagers are the nicest people around. My coffee cup lid had a lovely “Merry Xmas” handwritten message on it – such a kind and loving gesture by the cheery staff. Thank YOU – it made my heart smile.
It’s sometimes bitter sweet when I visit here and walk through the village where I spent all of my childhood.
Swing parks are now car parks.
No children playing outside.
Empty football parks, which were always full with kids in my day.
It’s obvious things have changed and I guess we just automatically adapt to the new waves of living and “getting older”.
It makes me really emotional as the wonderful happy memories of my young life here come flooding back. I am grateful and very lucky to have had such an amazing upbringing in this lovely community of Carfin Village.
Please be mindful of how blessed you are to experience the beauty and blessings of life.
As time passes, what once felt “normal” can now be the real precious treasures and sweetest memories of life.
I guess it takes me back to that excited child again, and when I see that first winter snowfall, all those wonderful childlike feelings come rushing back.
Every snowflake that falls, is unique in itself – quite the miracle, just like you and me.
There’s no one quite like you – and that makes you just perfect as you are.
As winter takes its first breath,
I stand here captivated.
~Clarabelle
Embrace the winter snowfall and have some snowball fun along the way.
I never understood her songs, until now – the film helped me with that.
I wasn’t a fan of Amy, but I do respect her work and outstanding singing talents. I appreciate her music even more now. She was honest, vulnerable and wholeheartedly emotional in her lyrics – her ability to express this is truly admirable.
The love she wrote about, brought her so much joy and pain at the same time. She loved deeply and a love like that, takes over your whole being. You become the love and that exposes you to so much good and also “wants”. It is in the need of love from others, we give away our power and unbelievable hurt can creep in.
I am not saying love is a bad thing – real love is the greatest thing on earth. I do think however, that self-love comes first, and from that stand point, you attract the best love for you.
No one teaches us in School about the importance of self-love, I guess we rely on our parents for that, but who teaches them?
Many years ago, in my Coaching days, I read a lot of books on self-love, self-confidence, positive thinking, self-sabotage, self-worth, self-esteem…..etc…it helped me to understand myself and understand others.
Stephen R Covey wrote an enlightening book, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People“. I would totally recommend this book – it will help you navigate through life’s ups and downs, and so much more. I first read it in 2008, but struggled relating to it…..I then read it again one year later and totally got the message. I then blended the learning into my coaching sessions, which proved to be very successful.
The reason, I mention this book by Stephen Covey, is because he talks about “love” in his book – the wisdoms he shares is so deep.
I love, LOVE – at the age of 40 years, I had the word tattooed on my left arm (I now, do not recommend tattoos 😊).
If I want to escape stormy reality, I can easily sink into that “loving feeling”.
To progress in life, always start with honouring thy self-love and build from there.
I was out running with my five nieces recently and what a joyful and inspiring experience it was.
My nieces are…
Megan: 18 years and the most beautiful young lady you will ever meet, with the happiest smile. Megan will be Entrepreneur of the decade – she is super intelligent and successfully business savvy – watch this space! AC loves you Megan 💖
Carmen: 13 years, who has the most loving, caring and endearing heart. Carmen is beyond talented at drawing, writing and anything artistically creative. She also made me a cute bracelet as a goodbye gift – thank you Carmen! AC loves you Carmen 💖
Made by Carmen 💛
Nicole: 9 years and WOW can this young girl run! Without any training at all, Nicole sat right on my shoulder running for 18 minutes flat – her determination, never give up attitude and inner strength is second to none. Nicole will get EVERYWHERE in life with that kind of spirit. She is sweet, polite, kind and a beautiful joy to be around. AC loves you Nicole 💖
Michelle: 6 years and what a funny, kind, happy and super loving child Michelle is – she also did the 18 minute run very easily – I could not believe my eyes! Michelle is full of joy, love and happiness. You should have seen this young one sprint at the end……WOW, the olympics are calling! AC loves you Michelle 💖
Elisabeth: Nearly 2 years old and beautiful little Elisabeth joined in the running fun. Megan and Carmen held her hand and she was smiling, laughing and joining in the running fun. Mummy watched it all with joy and pride. Elisabeth is an adventurous little child who loves to have fun and take part with her big sisters. AC loves you Elisabeth 💖
My wonderful nieces run outdoors both days with me and I am so PROUD of them. I love them all very much and can’t wait to see how they progress.
I want to give my nephew Sean (20 years) a mention. I am sure he would have joined us girls in the running challenge, but he was in Malawi, East Africa doing voluntary work with his Dad (Cameron) and Nic (Megan’s lovely boyfriend). I am so proud of you all for giving back in such a kind, caring and helpful way.
My lovely Sister, Leanne is the most AMAZING Mum, and I could easily dedicate a whole book to her wonderful ways – SuperMum she is and more 💖
I started running way back in 2007 and have done thousands of outdoor runs, but I can honestly and wholeheartedly say, that those two recent outdoor runs with my nieces were the BEST EVER. It took me 17 years to experience the best run of my life and all because my nieces were with me.
AC loves you ALL very much and is so proud of you.
Let’s keep it going!
Life is what you make it. You can watch from the sidelines or take part – it’s your choice.
I had a wonderful conversation recently about it – it made me feel so happy and alive.
There are many different individual interpretations of “making your dream life come true” and it’s not always about “dripping in gold” and driving a Rolls-Royce.
“Living the dream life“, is more often about…
Spending precious time with loved ones;
Having good health;
Being around nature;
Feeling relaxed, safe and happy in your environment;
Having a comfortable home;
Having easy access to running water, food on the table and a cosy bed to sleep in;
Reading a great book and/or watching your favourite movie;
Glaring at a mesmerising sunset or being captivated by the beautiful morning sunrise;
Taking the super excited family dog for a walk;
Strolling along the beachfront, breathing in that salty sea air;
Sharing warm hugs and cute cuddles with a loved one;
Enjoying a nice cup of tea or fresh pot of coffee;
Jumping in the puddles and dancing in the rain;
Laughing out loud and having fun;
Writing a poem, drawing beautiful art or storytelling;
I could go on with this special list but I know you get what I mean.
Maybe, if you just think about it, you’re “living the dream” already – or can at least tap into parts of it throughout your day – doesn’t that make your heart smile?
Find the “dream” where you are – where you stand right now, in this moment – isn’t it such a beautiful thing?
Your true presence is EVERYTHING and all you’ll ever need.
A while ago, I was given the gift of this bestseller book, Zero to One by Peter Thiel. The unopened book was sitting on my shelf for too long, before I decided recently to dive into its knowledge.
I needed to switch off from my mobile phone, laptop and tablet, so this book was a perfect escape.
I love learning from the best and gaining fresh perspectives on business and self-development.
I wasn’t sure what to expect from the book but I just knew I’d find a golden nugget or two to help me with my own business and self-progression.
I wanted to try a different approach to reading the book – which was, reading out loud, a chapter at a time. It might sound silly to do this, but I found this approach to reading quite captivating.
I found myself taking more time to simmer and savour the learning from each page. I’d often read out loud paragraphs twice, like I was reiterating the message.
It’s not a book reading approach I will use all the time, but I just felt like “shaking things up a little bit” and I enjoyed the process immensely.
Obviously, I was at home alone reading out loud, pretending to be a great teacher, helping others learn.
The moral of the story is, “you don’t need to do things as you’ve always done“. Try a new approach; a different and more intriguing way to daily activities.
Keep the brain sharp and the body “on its toes“.
Be creative in your doing and enjoy the journey – we know that’s the most important part.
You must appreciate all the beauty, love and abundance in your life.
Often you don’t see the true magic in these until they are gone.
Where you have beautiful memories, you must treasure them like the most exquisite diamonds. Allow these precious memories to light up your heart forever. You must also create new memories in order to maintain your wonderful sparkle.
Shine bright in the now and know that you are loved dearly.
Your presence is always special and ignites inspiration in many hearts.
You make this world a better place to live in, by just being you.
You have so much to look forward to in life because you naturally attract so much goodness.
This video was captured in the beautiful historic village of Carrbridge, in the Highlands of Scotland. This is the view of the 18th century packhorse bridge, in which the area is famous for.
If you ever get a chance to visit the Highlands, I would recommend a visit to that popular tourist spot and also the surrounding areas of Boat of Garten and Aviemore – all part of the Cairngorms National Park.
The Highlands of Scotland is one of the most magical places I’ve been to. Its natural beauty is just breathtaking and the local residents are so welcoming and friendly.
Honestly, if you are thinking of going, please do contact me, I can offer you some worthwhile guidance on where to stay, what to do and where to go.
It holds a very special place in my heart, and I genuinely believe it healed me during some tough times in life. The funny thing is, I wasn’t aware of its healing powers whilst living there, but when I Iook back, I know it did exactly that.
I will share with you more videos and photographs of my life up there – so please watch this space!
Clarabelle Walking in Snowy Highlands
The world is filled with magical places to visit, and to travel and explore these, is such a wonderful gift.
If there is a destination that you have always wanted to visit, then you must do your best to make that happen.
Constantly being in the one spot can become dull and stagnant. Your curious soul thrives to feel alive in new environments.
Write a list of the places you’ve always wanted to go to and do what you can to get there.
Clarabelle’s Highland Cabin, Year 2017
I’ll be back in the Highlands soon for a visit. I love the snow and there’s plenty of it coming there soon.
Be all you can be and take your beautiful energy to places you align with.
I pick it up my poetic heart into the suitcase for my depart
Goodbye yesterday my life's not there memories drift on roadblocked, beware
Seconds tick by the dark past is dead bright speckles of light are floating ahead
A spectrum of magic bursts through the sky guiding my spirit beaming so high
A dream, a purpose fulfulling my soul a future so perfect but now is the goal
I hold the power to what will be feeling abundance joyful and free
My energy exudes into a special space remembering tomorrow a loving embrace
~Clarabelle
Often I don’t know why the words dance in harmony that way. I’m not even sure it’s my message. Regardless, of the source, it always comes with “a loving embrace” – the purest kind.
Only when the mind is still and empty, can it receive the highest wisdom.
The year was 2016 and I had just moved to Northern Ireland for some temporary work and going there felt like a new and exciting adventure.
It certainly did give me that, and if I had been in a better frame of mind during my time there, I would have gotten so much more out of the experience.
When I arrived off the boat at Belfast, it took me three buses to get to my final destination – but I made it, suitcase in hand and a smile in my back pocket.
I made great friends in that little village, but my mind was very unsettled, so the whole experience didn’t last as long as I had first hoped.
Nevertheless, the first week in, I bought myself a nice wee pre-loved Volkswagen Beetle, so I could drive daily to the local gym and explore the area more.
I went everywhere in that little Beetle car – it wasn’t the most reliable, but I genuinely loved it.
One morning, I was driving to the gym, not particularly happy with my current life and its progress, but very soon that all changed.
I was listening to the local radio, when this spellbounding tune came on. It hit me instantly, like a firework had gone off in my heart. The song was “I Need Never Get Old” by Nathaniel Rateliff & The Night Sweats. I turned the volume up to the max and had the best morning drive to the gym EVER!
That song, not only changed my mood, it changed my current ‘stuck’ situation. I started to make decisions I had been avoiding and life seemed to flow more in my favour. Everytime I needed a mental boost, on went that song and I would jump around crazy dancing to it.
Below is a Youtube video of the song and I dare you not to dance to it…
I researched into the song meaning. There are a few different suggestions out there, but ultimately, I think it’s about, NEVER GIVING UP.
I read some of the Youtube comments displayed under the song – and it really has been a healing song for some people going through extremely tough times….
How beautiful, that a song can have so much power to help others in need – and that’s just what this song does.
Only recently have I started to introduce music back into my life, and I am so glad I did.
What is your favourite song and why?
I’d love to know in the comments below.
I guess, the message to you today is, NEVER GIVE UP and know that, even with the right song, happiness can be turned on in an instant.
You may not think that or believe it of yourself – but YOU ARE.
We are being informed a lot today about artificial intelligence – Do you think artificial can outshine an original creation?
AI is fake.
I would challenge ANY future robot to better create poignant poetry, deep words of wisdom or a beautiful emotional ballad.
AI will never be as emotionally perceptive as an awakened soul.
If AI, in the far future, ever tries to take over us human beings, they are ultimately finished, because they cannot advance emotionally.
Our feelings and emotions are what make us invincible.
The famous Selfridges in Oxford Street, London, once had an AI robot in the window. I stopped and stared at it for a while. The lady standing next to me, asked, “Does that scare you?”. I just looked at her in complete surprise. She said, “It scares me”, and then walked away.
I was left a little bewildered by her statement, for it was something I had never ever thought about.
My answer to her question therefore, is a hard “No“.
Why would I be scared of a fake robot in a shop window? Of course, she was referring to her imagined future with AI.
I’ve watched interviews with people like Elon Musk and Joe Rogan discuss the scary future of AI. I do respect these individuals and the amazing successes they have achieved in life.
Call me ignorant, naive or crazy – I believe no robot is better than you or I, at least, emotionally.
A robot may get good at copying us human beings, but, in my opinion, they will never supercede us in that respect.
Articial Intelligence supports huge scale global advancement but us, human beings, are already beyond that advancement – we just need to learn more about how we access that superior mode.
Therefore, to be ahead of the game, and before any feared robot takeover, we must study and apply leading edge teachings.
I want you to, DYOR on this one, but know you can advance by learning from the very best.
Think about the things you truly love doing and have a deep connection to. How does being immersed in these interests make you feel?
You want to be involved in activities that make you feel alive.
Do things that align with your soul.
Make time for you, the real you.
Peace of heart and tranquility of mind are fully embodied, when you dance to the tune of your bliss.
Happiness is a feeling that can be tapped into at any moment of your day.
If you think happy things, you cannot be sad – read that one again!
Therefore, the power of your self-happiness is just a happy thought away.
Happy thoughts, create happy feelings, which then lead to doing things that make you feel even more happier.
The happy thought comes first, but it’s the happy ‘feeling’ that ignites the positive action.
1.THINK
2.FEEL
3.DO
When I was heavily into my coaching, believe me, I studied this field constantly. I read countless books on everything related to self-mastery.
I not only shared it with my coachees but I applied all the learnings to myself. I had to test it out before sharing it.
This type of brain work takes a lot of practice – I mean MASSIVE amounts.
Basically, you have to reprogramme your mind to new thinking, and the old programne that’s been running for many years, does not want to budge. It is rigid, stuck, locked in, set in stone….but not impossible to change.
I know this stuff inside out and even I find it extremely difficult to master. I’ve been practising this daily since 2008. Yes, 16 years trying to reprogramme my mind.
I believe this new thinking, is growing strong roots and the fruits of this are starting to blossom.
It takes daily effort, increased self-awareness, strong self-belief and a deep knowing that true transformation is taking place.
At times, and especially at the beginning of this change process, your mind is going to be exhausted. It will take up so much of your mental energy, because your brain is creating a new set of neural pathways. I’m not going to go that deep into it, but if you are interested in reading more on how the brain can change, read books on the subject of neuroplasticity – FASCINATING!
I believe the body is self-healing. How can something so perfectly formed, not have internal intelligence to heal?
I know you have more self-power than you can ever imagine.
I believe, we are super human beings, who haven’t yet fully discovered how to tap into our genius.
Your greatest potential is waiting to be unleashed – don’t fight it – let it out.
You are truly remarkable in every sense of the word.
Believe in you.
Believe in your capabilities.
Believe only magnificence lies before you.
Give yourself that gift – watch the short video I created below. 💛
They say diamonds are a girl’s best friend, and wow, there are some absolute beauties of diamonds out there.
Today, I went for a little stroll along the famous Bond Street in London. I love to look in the shop windows there and admire the extra special designs.
I purposely went there to shop mentally. What does that mean? Well, I used my wonderful imagination to pretend buy. This aligns with the law of attractionand law of vibration. Basically, I am manifesting these items into my existence through the power of visualisation. I did this today, whilst listening to manifestation techniques on audio.
I went up and down Bond Street in London, looking for some unique items I would love to own.
It took me a while, but eventually, I found three items that truly captivated my attention….
I envisaged myself, wearing these items and admiring myself in the mirror with them on. I captured the lovely feelings of having these in my heart and it really did make me smile.
I then went looking for a luxury designer watch for my J – he loves the Patek Philippe brand, and I pictured myself surprise gifting him with it. Again, I embodied those happy and excited feelings inside of me.
By practising this mental exercise, I am raising my vibration to be aligned on the same frequency as having these items.
No joke – this stuff works – but it’s not always easy to do. It takes a lot of mental and emotional practice.
This is where the believing is seeing applies.
If you think I’ve gone mad, that’s okay, but try telling that to many olympic gold medalists, who use the power of visualisation, as part of their olympic training. Paris 2024 olympic gold medalist, Keely Hodgkinson talked about practising visualisation in her televised interview.
Keely wins Olympic Gold
There’s a vital addition to this visualisation stuff – you must take inspired action in alignment with your dream goal.
I’ll certainly let you know, as soon as the aforesaid diamonds are in my possession. I’ll definitely do a success blog post about it!
I live in my dream beach house, overlooking pretty white sand and sparkling turquoise waters. The fresh salty air breathes life into my soul, as I watch the majestic sunrise awaken every morning.
I often write from my ocean view balcony, grateful and mesmerised by each precious moment.
I glance up to the perfect blue sky, where colourful birds soar, happy in song and dancing in full flight.
I feel free, light, joyous and in love with this magical life. A life I once dreamt about, and now I stand here believing.
Since moving here with J, our lives have become beyond perfect. We love hosting family get togethers and our sunny beach life has never felt so much fun.
Believe me – you’re never too old to build a sandcastle!
Our home interior decor is beautified with soft sunlight pastel colours, that gently vibe with every pink glowing sunset.
We are both true Artists, creating lifetime masterpieces, that give inspiration and heartfelt hope to others.
We exude so much love and happiness, and this is returned to us ten-fold.
We never want to leave “Palm Emerald Island” this is our forever place.
We are healthy, full of love and abundant in every sense of the word.
I never want to wake up from this awe-inspiring dream.
And that’s what it takes to manifest your future life, today.
See yourself there, feel those feelings now and you’re vibing on a whole new different level.
Your thinking and feeling needs to be so elevated and on a higher frequency to attract that dream life to you.
The Universe will make it happen for you, as you take aligned and inspired action along the way.
You’re so close to your desired future – so very close.
I know on this Clarabelle blog, I am always encouraging you to do good things and create good habits, and I still wholeheartedly, 100% stand by this.
However, life is most definitely about balance and every now and then, you must allow yourself to EAT THE ICE CREAM!
A good habit therefore, is having the habit of balance in your life.
Your beautiful life has to be savoured and enjoyed. Roll out the red carpet for yourself and have a little fun.
Be good to yourself and be your own best friend.
If you haven’t took time in a while to watch a gorgeous morning sunrise or breathtaking sunset – now is the time!
A boxed up life is not good for the soul – read that one again!
Think about it, are you happier, when you’re happier?
If you feel happier, are people around you happier?
When you are happy, does your environment feel more sunnier?
Ensure you tick off that “happier” box everyday – even if it’s for a few minutes.
I am here for you.
I support your good ways.
I love it when you are happy.
Ice Cream Crazy!
I hadn’t eaten an ice cream cone like this one for many years – I felt like a happy kid again and it was delicious. It might be a long time before I enjoy another one, and that my friend, is the art of life balance.
There’s just something quite special about sitting alone, amongst beautiful surroundings and enjoying a lovely cup of coffee (or tea). If you have a nice view – then even better!
Some of my best creative writing comes out of these solitude moments – my mind just drifts easily into poetic song.
My way, always seems to be the scenic route – many years of ups and downs but many magical moments on the journey.
It’s the magic moments that shape and inspire me – the downs are ‘key’ learning opportunities and you must see it that way – if you want to KEEP GOING!
Stay on your desired path, no matter how hard it gets and the RIGHT people WILL come your way – like a beautiful surprise blessing.
We are all super blessed to experience the beauty of life – treat it as a fun and joyous game that you always WIN.
I know, it’s early….very early for some people, but I want you to know, my customers have already started to buy in their Christmas Cards from me.
I believe it’s getting earlier every year and I’m not complaining one tiny bit.
Christmas Gift Countdown
The Autumn/Winter season is usually the best selling months for me. October and November goes crazy for my Thanksgiving Cards and October to end December – Christmas Cards sales are hotter than hot!
The festive season can be stressful, overly busy and dare I say it….expensive! I guess some people like to start early to spread the cost over a few months, rather than all the costs coming out of their December pay packet.
I was always the latter…..but trying to improve on that one.
If you’re looking for some family and friendship Christmas Cards, then please do head over to my Amazon Store – fast prime delivery is always available.
I’ve not made any fixed plans for the Christmas holidays at the moment – if I get a huge amount of Christmas Card sales, I’ll defo be jetting off to somewhere super fancy. You’ll know because I’ll blog about it!
I’m officially starting your Christmas Countdown – please don’t hate me for it!
Afternoon Tea with Good Friends at Hotel Cafe Royal, Regent Street, London
I’m an afternoon tea lover and living here in Central London offers an abundance of exquisite five star options.
I have been very lucky to experience delicious afternoon teas at The Grill Room, formerly the Oscar Wilde Lounge at Hotel Cafe Royal; the Crystal Moon Lounge at the Corinthia and more recently, The Rosebery dining room at the Mandarin Oriental in Knightsbridge. My favourite so far, was afternoon tea at the Crystal Moon Lounge, it was just perfect in everyway.
Back Again with my Besties! A lovely afternoon tea at Hotel Cafe Royal
I have a joyous meeting coming up, and that is, to take my niece Megan, who will be visiting London from bonny Scotland, to enjoy an extra special afternoon tea and we’re so excited about it.
An elegant afternoon at the Corinthia with beautiful friends
Research has gone underway and the following afternoon teas are currently on my hit list:
The Ritz – “one of most iconic experiences in the world”
The Landmark – “London’s most exquisite aftetnoon tea…”
There are many others on my list such as The Dorchester, The Langham, The Shard, Claridges and I just know I’ll get to experience all these in due course.
Afternoon Tea with Clarabelle, at the Mandarin Oriental
Most certainly, I’ll do a blog post on here about which London afternoon tea of choice we treat Megan to.
What’s your favourite place in London to have afternoon tea and why? I’d love to know.
I had the opportunity a few years back to look after a friend’s ten bedroom mansion whilst they set up their new business overseas.
The Beautiful Garden Grounds
I loved that big house, with its perfect private gardens, tranquil vibe and beautiful natural woodland setting.
I treated my time there as a real ‘gift’ and a haven to reset and refresh, before the next chapter in my life.
The house was in a quiet secluded area, so I didn’t meet a lot of people – just the lovely staff who looked after the grounds and cared for the inside of the house.
I was in that big house, often alone but never lonely – I just love my own company and precious quality time to myself.
The Real ‘Ginger’
There was one little extra special friend I made..and that was ‘Ginger’ a gorgeous cute cat who dropped by the house morning, noon and night. Now….up until that point in my life, I was NOT a cat lover….I would say, I was more of a dog person….cats were never my thing….until I fell in love with little Ginger.
I tried not to like Ginger at first….I was selfishly holding onto my “I’m only a dog lover” badge, but thankfully, that didn’t last long.
In my eyes, Ginger became perfect in everyway and we bonded over morning sunrises, summer evening sunsets and lots of saucers of milk!
Ginger was the ‘apple of my eye’,the friend I never wanted, but the true friend I really needed.
My Friend Ginger
I have never loved a cat so much.
When it was time to head back to the big city lights of London, I gave Ginger a tearful farewell and thanked him for making my stay extra memorable.
That was 7 years ago and little Ginger still holds a special place in my heart.
I want you to open your heart to ALL the love that comes your way and remember how blessed you are everyday to experience the beauty and beings of this world.
This was me in 2018 having a great laugh with my nieces, jumping around like a fool on their outdoor trampoline – I was aged 45 then…..I’d do it again today at 51, if my body allowed it!
We must create a sense of fun and adventure in life, we must, at times, be a kid again and drop the adult seriousness. Being a boring adult, can be exhausting and I have no energy for that!
Yes, we all have troubles and worries – some more than others, but we must always remember to face adversity with a smile and a solution – read that one again!
I am so happy when I am with my nieces – I have five of them and one nephew and their energy and love for life is truly contagious.
Go on, have a little fun!
When ‘Auntie Claire’ comes from London to visit them, the only thing I’m doing is having a whole lot of fun and they, deservedly so, get my undivided attention. We go on nature walks, play board games, draw, write, watch family movies, sing, dance and everything in between – those moments are some of the best times of my life.
When you free your mind from the worries of today and just ‘live in the moment’, life becomes much more peaceful and joyful.
And if you are feeling overburdened with life’s challenges – take a step back and do something funloving and carefree to get out of the issue and into the positive energy, – your body and mind will thank you for it.
Please “don’t give a damn” what others think…..do you….do all of you and more!
Fall down 7 times, get up 8!
As soon as you free up yourself to be yourself, well it’s a different kind of story and a journey you’d be much happier living.
We visited the spectacular Santorini in Greece ten months ago and what a sensational holiday we had.
Never did I expect the views from Fira Town and Oia Village to be so breathtakingly stunning – this place is truly a ‘Gift from the Gods’ and that’s an understatement!
I remember many years ago gasping at the most perfect Santorini photographs in those ‘posh’ travel magazines – dreaming myself there one day….now the dream is a magical memory.
The whole holiday from start to finish was just super WOW and the local people were my five star favourites.
This holiday was a tad on the expensive side, but we were well prepared for that, and in my opinion, the luxury we experienced was worth every penny.
Stunning views from Fira
We stayed in Cavo Bianco, a lovely romantic five star boutique hotel and spa near Kamari Beach and I must say, the staff (⭐ Maria ⭐) and service there was impeccable. On arrival, we were extremely lucky to be upgraded to their best suite and we certainly made the most of it. I would definitely recommend this hotel if you are looking for a more tranquil and relaxed vibe – it really was so peaceful and was just what we needed – a delightful getaway from our busy London City lives.
Restaurant View, Kamari Beach
Kamari has a pebble beach – now I do prefer golden sandy beaches but it proved to be special in so many other ways. We did catch the early morning sunrise here and were truly mesmerised by it.
Our holiday adventures took us to the best restaurants, bars, beaches, captivating views…with the highlight of our holiday being a beautiful Catamaran Sunset Cruise, sailing on the ‘Serenity’……a truly unforgetable and sensational experience.
Sunset Cruise on the ‘Serenity’
We made good friends on our holiday and that was down to the whole vibe of the island – cool, carefree and charming.
Would I go back? This one is a no brainer for me….one thousand percent YES!
If you are looking to visit an extra special place with breathtaking views, then Santorini is an absolute must. I look forward to going back.
Take your heart on holiday – you deserve the magic it brings!
I have a dream to travel the world on a luxury super yacht, sailing the open seas and inviting the ocean sunsets into my heart.
The great thing is…in my magical mind…it’s never JUST a dream…it’s a vision to come true….to forever experience…to truly live and fully immerse in.
Dream It Do It and as cliche as it may sound, that’s my exact plan.
I’m never that girl who only talks the talk! Yes, it might take me a few years to get there, but I will forever walk the talk.
I’ve always loved boats and I’m not even a great swimmer but there’s just something so special about sailing towards the summer sunset – free, easy, bright and breezy!
Catamaran Sunset Cruise in Santorini
Watching whales in their natural environment will be on my sailing adventures list – the thought of being close to the breathtaking beauty and magnitudnal size of a blue whale, fills me with the greatest joy and off-the-scale excitement.
Our sailing journey starts in 2025 where we will be cruising around Spain, France and Italy, on the stunning ship – the famous Sky Princess by Princess Cruises. It’s a top quality oceanliner that will be freeing my heart amongst the waves of life.
These dreams do come at cost, but I’d rather pay thousands of pounds for a magical lifetime experience than a fancy designer handbag anyday – but hey, each to their own and we all love what we love!
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A lot of us are living and working in square boxes most of our lives, but I genuinely don’t think that’s where we’re supposed to be. Our life of this time should not be couped up any longer than it needs to be. The wonders of the natural world on land, sky and sea want to greet our soul with a smile and a sparkle. Please don’t be tempted to stay in your cave for too long, the miracles you seek are often just a decision away.
I dare you to plan that dream trip, go to that new place you’ve had your eye on, shake mother-nature’s hand and simmer under the sunset like there’s no tomorrow – for I know this adventure will live in your heart forever.
Explore your passionate desires through wondrous worldly travel.
With a title like this, I am in no way minimizing the sheer amazement that is Angkor Wat. Truly, I have never been so blown away by such mastery and grandeur. I usually max out on museums and historic sites after a few hours each day. Something was different at Angkor Wat. Each temple held a unique frequency, and I became more energized as I temple-hopped. If it were allowed, I would have happily slept out there. LOL. There is a wealth of information about visiting Angkor Wat online, so I wanted this article to help you differently. Here, I’ll share my favorite things I did in Siem Reap beyond the temples.
First, I’ll offer a few tips I wish I had known before visiting. Then, we’ll head north of Angkor Wat and explore beyond, where I’ll share some of the adventurous and off-the-beaten-path activities I enjoyed outside the temple grounds. To clarify, the ancient city of Angkor Wat is inside the modern city of Siem Reap. I’ll keep these concise and to the point. Here are my top 11 pointers not to miss beyond the temples!
Angkor Wat
1. Logistics
Passes
When I visited Angkor Wat in June 2024, there were three types of passes available: a one-day, three-day and seven-day pass. If you have the time, I highly recommend the seven-day pass. It allows you to explore the grounds at a more relaxed pace and visit remote temples that many rushed travelers don’t have the opportunity to see.
There are two main viewing routes in Angkor Wat – the Big Circuit and the Small Circuit, most definitely traversed on separate days. My friends and I hired a TukTuk driver for the Big Circuit, which was the best use of our time and incredibly fun! The next day, I tackled the Small Circuit on my bicycle, which provided both a workout and enjoyment.
There was something about biking alone through the jungle that made me feel like a real adventurer, especially when I got stuck in a torrential downpour for 1.5 hours 🙆🏽♀️. I recommend these transportation methods and they are a bit rugged and keep you close to the earth. You can rent or hire an air-conditioned car, to me this felt too modern for the landscape.
Pro tip ~ there are two temples 20-30 minutes outside the Big Circuit called Phnom Bok and Banteay Samre. We had our driver take us to these for an additional small fee. Now I wouldn’t suggest more temples unless they were worth it, and these REALLY REALLY ARE!
Put on your athlete cap, as Phnom Bok requires 630 steps up to this 9th-10th century temple. This is no joke in triple-digit weather, my friends. Apart from the crumbling Phnom Bok there is also a gorgeous Buddhist temple atop. You will feel alone on top of the world up here.
Banteay Samre is down the street as you head back into town. This temple blew me away because the carvings are well-preserved. I think this is because of its tucked-away location and the fact that it attracts far fewer visitors than the temples on the circuits.
Food & Drink
There are cafes and restaurants scattered throughout the grounds of Angkor Wat which offer a variety of food, drinks and souvenirs. You won’t go hungry out there!If you have specific preferences for snacks and hydration, I recommend bringing them in a backpack. Additionally, it’s wise to research the weather for your visit. Depending on the season, you may want to pack a rain jacket and umbrella, just in case.
2. The Angkor Wat App
This app proved invaluable as it maps out both routes within its interface, conveniently numbered in viewing order – a stroke of genius! Clicking on each temple provides a brief history, which was informative. While the basic version sufficed, in hindsight, I wish I had opted for the upgraded version for additional features and information. The app was particularly helpful when I explored alone on my bike, keeping me on course through the behemoth jungle.
3. The Secret Angkor Thom Trail
Anything secret intrigues me, especially when lost cities are involved. So when a local tipped me off to the 12km trail around Angkor Thom, my ears perked up. As you enter through any archway entrances surrounding the perimeter, you’ll find small dirt trails leading up to the wall (I entered at the South Gate). On top of the wall is a perfect trail for walking, running, or biking. You’ll encounter wildlife, a jungle to your right, a moat to your left and hidden temples along the shaded path. I saw no other trekkers, only a few bicycle groups during my walk.
Walking is one of my favorite activities, and this trail in this setting made it extra special – it was one of my favorite walks ever. I suggest bringing a hat, plenty of water, a fully charged phone and a few downloaded podcast episodes. Walking casually, I completed the full loop in 3 hours and 22 minutes. Talk about experiencing Angkor Wat without the crowds!
I think you will be pleasantly surprised and enamored with the town of Siem Reap. It is walkable, safe and has the modern conveniences you want. Now, this is not a food guide, but there are a few places I MUST point out. These are places I will always revisit when I return.
4. Restaurants
It is hard to have a bad meal in Siem Reap. That said, I especially fell in love with these restaurants. The first two are quick, delicious and mission-driven establishments. The third was such a comforting, cozy experience tasting Geeta’s food; it reminded me of my Nana’s cooking!
• Wild Creative Bar & Spring Rolls Restaurant – anyone who has designed a restaurant concept around spring rolls has my heart. To me, spring rolls are close to tacos regarding a near-perfect meal. Light, easy, crunchy, flavorful, creative and requires sauce ~ bliss! Wild has come up with some unique rolls and dipping sauces. I packed a few of their rolls for a picnic one day inside the temples and that was the move.
• Muffin Man – these guys served me one of the best muffins I have ever had. Along with sweet treats, they nail healthy salads and sandwiches. With two convenient locations in town and delicious coffee, Muffin Man is a must-try.Don’t miss reading the story of how they came to be, as it absolutely moving, grab the tissues.
• Serendib Srilankan Cuisine – go meet Geeta and eat her incredible food! She is a nurse by day and chef extraordinaire by night. The sweetest soul and her food will transport you to Sri Lanka and beyond.
5. Bars
There are plenty of bars in SR, but these watering holes were unique and unforgettable.
• Asana Old Wooden House – a cozy, perfectly lit gem inside Pub Street’s bustle. This cocktail-forward bar is a beautiful example of traditional Khmer architecture. These houses are known for their intricate wooden carvings and elevated stilts to protect against flooding during the monsoon season. You could see lighting up a cigar with the most interesting man in the world at Asana!
• Laundry – I first walked by Laundry and thought it was a laundromat. Nope! It is a groovy, low-key bar with a melting pot of travelers, expats and locals. The pool table, along with the hot peanuts and local draft beer, are the main attractions. The perfect place to decompress after a day of temples!
• Elephant Bar – because who doesn’t love a little pinky-up moment? Located inside Raffles Grand Hotel d’Angkor, Elephant Bar boasts a well-appointed setting. They host a welcoming happy hour from 4-6p, open to outside guests. Beyond the delightful drinks, I was charmed by the friendly staff, world-class art and snacks (of course!).
Honorable Mention – although not a restaurant or bar, I highly recommend visiting Tribe Art Gallery. They house incredible art created by locals and other artists throughout Asia. The meaning and intention behind each artist’s work really drew me in. Check their hours; they were open Friday through Sunday evenings when I visited.
North of Angkor Wat
For the adventures below, I rented a scooter. There is nothing like riding a scooter through Cambodia’s countryside, as this is a wonderfully rural part of the world. It did a lot for the little kid in me. Don’t miss this type of transportation during your exploration beyond the temples!
6. Banteay Srey Temple
Banteay Srey Temple is known for its distinctive red sandstone construction, unique among the Angkorian temples. This beauty dates back to the late 10th century, making it older than Angkor Wat, built in the early 12th century. It is celebrated for its decorative intricacy, showcasing some of the finest examples of classical Khmer craftsmanship from the Angkorian era. The artistry here was astounding. You will need your temple pass to enter.
7. Cambodia Landine Museum
Landmines in Cambodia are a tragic legacy from decades of conflict, including the Vietnam War and the Khmer Rouge regime, which left the country heavily contaminated with unexploded ordnance. This museum tells the brave and heroic story of Aki Ra ~ a soldier, humanitarian, hero, de-miner, husband and father.These accounts of the past are heavy and hard to process. Understanding these gut-wrenching pieces of history allows us to honor and acknowledge those who endured unfathomable hardships. For me, it’s a way to pay my respects.
I mapped myself here to break up my drive to Tonle Sap Lake and was sure glad I did! During the brief tour of the farm I saw and learned about all the sustainable ways they use the lotus flower. These include making thread for clothing, food, vegan leather, candles, perfume, tea and much more. Don’t miss the gift shop downstairs + lotus tea & biscuits upstairs!
9. Tonle Sap Lake
Tonle Sap Lake is the largest freshwater lake in Southeast Asia 😲. It has sustained Cambodian communities for centuries, providing fertile fishing and agricultural grounds. The lake is home to floating villages, where houses and structures are built on stilts or platforms. This allows inhabitants to adapt to the lake’s changing water levels and move their homes + communities as needed depending on water levels during wet and dry seasons. Visiting the floating villages is a hands-on way to understand the importance of this lake. Can you imagine moving your home because you know a monsoon is coming? All I can say is respect.
Phnom Kraom is home to a Buddhist monastery where monks live and practice daily rituals, contributing to the serene atmosphere atop the hill. You can explore this Buddhist temple, which provides panoramic views of the surrounding countryside. Cruise to Phnom Kraom after Tonle Sap for sunset, as this is one of the highest points in Siem Reap. Viewing the floating village from this hillside provides a colorful vision. You will need to show your temple pass to enter.
East of Siem Reap
11. Kulen Elephant Forest Camp
My last suggestion beyond the temples is Kulen Elephant Forest Camp. I booked this experience directly online. They offer roundtrip transportation in an air-conditioned car, which is amazing. Our guide picked us up downtown, and we drove one hour east to Kulen Elephant Forest to meet these majestic giants.
These elephants were rescued from working in tourism at Angkor Wat in 2017. By 2019, elephant rides at the temples had stopped. It is wonderful to see how well taken care of they are, these caretakers are doing a top notch job. The time spent at the camp includes making elephant food, feeding, walking, and hanging with the elephants in the forest. If you are an elephant lover, this experience will be a dream come true! The money spent on visits helps with their feed, care and conservation efforts. I paid $90 USD.
Good Bye, Mysterious Angkor Wat
When I think about Angkor Wat, it evokes mystery and intrigue. There are many theories about how the Khmer built the largest and most prosperous urban city of the 12th century. How did they cut and lay each stone so precisely? How did they carve the stones without cracking them? As curious as I am, some things are better left enigmatic. I believe ancient civilizations had access to higher consciousness ~ visioning, dreaming and creating as they were not so focused on climbing the corporate ladder, paying bills, social media and running carpools ~ if you know what I mean?
I hope you enjoy the temples with your body, mind and soul. May they touch you on a deep cellular level, activating a sense of mystery and wonder. And I hope these ways of experiencing Siem Reap beyond the temples round out your visit in a fulfilling way.May we all have the privilege of dreaming up something magical in this lifetime!
With all my love,
Bekah
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